This week we are looking at a few ideas to help get your small group back into a groove toward life-change so you can avoid the rut of simply “going through the motions.”
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"Do's and Don'ts of Small Groups"
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TALK LESS
Many youth ministry leaders, especially those who are just starting out, need to learn to talk less during their group time. Somehow many leaders manage to prop up a rather large pulpit in their small groups and spend the precious discussion time preaching. This isn’t the design for a healthy small group…if you need to pontificate, start a blog (shameless plug: seewww.dougfields.com).
Don’t be afraid of silence, learn to endure those awkward seconds (which we know can feel like minutes) because they’ll lead to a good moment if you don’t talk over them. The real light at the end of that dark tunnel is students feeling free to share. This won’t happen if you do all the talking. Great, life-changing discussions don’t appear when adults keep “saving” the group with all their “words of wisdom.”
MAKE THE MOST OF THE BEFORE AND AFTER
Some of the best time to lay a foundation for relational discipleship can be the 10 minutes before and/or after your small group time. In these precious moments, students are relaxed and open to natural conversation. This is often the time to discover important stuff about what’s happening in their lives.
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You can leverage this time with a few simple actions. Commit to being completely ready a few minutes before your first student arrives. This is difficult, we know (and we don’t always do this)! And, don’t rush home the minute after AMEN is prayed. Have a few general questions ready to ask as kids arrive. Recall last week’s discussion and follow up on those thoughts and conversations. With just a little intentionality, you can make the most of the “before and after” moments to develop deeper connections.

